Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

One lesson I wish I had learned earlier in life is that you don’t always have to fight for your truth, with your chest out and your defenses up. Life has a way of resolving things on its own, without us constantly needing to prove ourselves right.

For many years, I found myself getting caught up in situations where I felt the need to stand my ground and argue my point, thinking that winning the argument would somehow validate my beliefs or make me stronger. I fought tirelessly to be heard, often at the cost of peace—both mine and others’. What I failed to see was that some battles are better left unfought, and that time often reveals the truth without any intervention.

In life, not everything needs to be justified or defended. Letting go of the urge to prove myself has been one of the hardest lessons for me to accept, and even today, I struggle with it. But as time has passed, I’ve realized that allowing life to unfold without always interfering can bring a sense of peace. Not every disagreement needs to end in a victory, and sometimes the greatest strength comes from knowing when to step back and let things take their course.

It’s not about being passive, but rather about trusting that in the end, the truth will stand on its own, without the need for constant justification or struggle. This lesson, though simple, is something I’m still learning to embrace.

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Lajos

Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

Is an eternal question because life constantly encourages learning, and there are always enlightening things. What I have recently learned, influenced by my age and experiences, is that the better you are at something, the more criticism you may face, especially if your knowledge surpasses that of your leader.

In such situations, I have come to understand that it’s important to stay focused on doing my job to the best of my ability and to handle the attacks by deflecting them gracefully. It’s essential not to let criticism deter you from your goals and to use it as a motivator to continually improve and showcase your capabilities.

Thank you for reading.

Have a nice day

Lajos