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Where would you go on a shopping spree?

Where would you go on a shopping spree?

As a man, I have to admit that shopping isn’t exactly my idea of fun it’s more of a necessary evil. For me, every trip to the store is planned and purposeful. I know what I need, I grab it, and I’m out. Wandering around for hours, looking at random items? That’s not my scene. I leave that to my wife she actually enjoys it. When I think about a shopping spree, it’s less about browsing and more about efficiency. I’d choose somewhere that allows me to get in, find exactly what I need, and head back to my regular routine as quickly as possible.

Lajos

What is Your Middle Name? Does it Hold a Special Meaning?

What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?

In many cultures, names carry deep significance, often reflecting family heritage, religious beliefs, or personal aspirations. In Hungary, we typically have three names: the first is the family name (surname), followed by the given name (first name), and then, in many cases, a second given name, which is often chosen in honor of a godparent or a respected relative.

Unlike in some Western countries where the middle name is a common tradition, in Hungary, the second given name is not always officially used but still holds symbolic importance. It might reflect a family tradition, be inherited from a grandparent, or serve as a tribute to a beloved figure.

For some, a middle name is simply an additional part of their identity, while for others, it carries a story a reminder of their roots, values, or a special connection to someone important in their life.

Lajos

What is the last thing I learned?

What is the last thing you learned?

The answer to this question isn’t straightforward for me. I try to live my life whether in everyday situations or in my professional endeavors in such a way that I am constantly learning something new. Even now, with many experiences behind me, I frequently feel there’s still an immense amount of knowledge waiting to be discovered. I genuinely believe that maintaining an openness to learning, regardless of age or circumstance, enriches life immeasurably. Every day brings with it the opportunity to acquire new insights, skills, or simply a fresh perspective. And for that reason, pinpointing just one specific recent lesson seems nearly impossible. My goal is always the same: to remain curious, receptive, and committed to lifelong learning.

Lajos

What Is One Question You Hate to Be Asked?

What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

One of the most frustrating questions I encounter in daily life is “How are you?” Not because it’s inherently offensive or intrusive, but because it has become an empty formality rather than a genuine inquiry into someone’s well-being.

In English-speaking cultures, when someone asks, “How are you?”, the expected response is almost always a variation of “I’m fine, thanks,” or “Good, and you?” even if the person is struggling, stressed, or going through a difficult time. It’s a social script, a reflex rather than a meaningful conversation starter. The problem arises when you actually try to answer honestly. Imagine responding with, “Actually, I’m really overwhelmed right now,” or “Not great, to be honest.” Most people wouldn’t know how to handle that response. There would be an awkward pause, a forced smile, or a quick change of subject.

This contradiction exposes a deeper issue: we ask the question, but we don’t really want the answer. It’s a courtesy rather than a concern. If the purpose is merely to be polite, then why phrase it as a question at all? Why not just say, “Good to see you,” and move on? If we truly care, we should be prepared for an honest response, no matter how uncomfortable it might be.

Ultimately, this small, everyday exchange highlights a broader social tendency to prioritize politeness over authenticity. It’s a reminder that sometimes, the questions we ask aren’t really meant to be answered.

Lajos

How Has a Failure, or Apparent Failure, Set You Up for Later Success?

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

Failure is never a pleasant experience. It’s painful, frustrating, and often takes time to recover from. We like to believe that every failure holds a lesson, a silver lining that will eventually lead us to success. But the truth is, in the moment, failure feels like just that failure.

I won’t be cliché and say that every setback has immediately made me stronger or wiser. There have been times when a failure knocked me down so hard that it took months, even years, to fully process it. Some failures leave scars rather than lessons. But with time, as the dust settles, patterns start to emerge. I begin to see where things went wrong, what I could have done differently, and, sometimes, why that particular failure was necessary for a better opportunity down the road.

One thing is certain: failure never feels good. It shakes your confidence and makes you question everything. But over time, the perspective shifts. What once seemed like the end of the road often turns out to be a detour to something better. However, the process is rarely immediate or easy. It takes time, reflection, and sometimes sheer perseverance to extract meaning from failure.

So, has failure set me up for later success? Perhaps. But not in the way motivational quotes would have you believe. It’s not a quick lesson learned and a smooth road ahead. It’s more like a slow, painful realization that what once seemed like a disaster may have been a necessary part of the journey.

Lajos

Opening Sentence for My Autobiography

You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?

“If there’s one thing I’ve learned after three decades of drilling into the earth’s depths, traveling across continents, and facing both the beauty and brutality of the unknown, it’s that life like drilling demands precision, resilience, and the courage to go deeper than anyone else dares.”

Digging Deeper: The First Chapter of My Story

Writing an autobiography is like drilling a core sample from your own life. Some layers are solid, well-formed, and easy to interpret. Others are fractured, unpredictable, and filled with voids you didn’t expect. But each layer tells a story, a history of pressures, movements, and forces that shaped who I am today.

My journey has taken me from the quiet landscapes of Hungary to the frozen extremes of the Arctic and the unforgiving deserts of Saudi Arabia. I have worked in places where the ground itself holds secrets millions of years old, where every meter drilled reveals something unknown. Along the way, I’ve met people who have challenged, inspired, and even betrayed me. I’ve seen the raw power of nature, the ingenuity of human ambition, and the cost of pushing beyond limits.

If I had to choose a single moment that defines me, it wouldn’t be a grand success or a catastrophic failure it would be the quiet realization that no matter how deep you drill, there’s always more to uncover.

So, where does my story begin? Perhaps it starts not in the field, but in the restless curiosity of a young man who wanted to see what lay beneath the surface—not just of the earth, but of life itself.

Thanks

Lajos

What Are Three Objects You Couldn’t Live Without?

What are three objects you couldn’t live without?

This is an interesting question because I’ve never really thought about it before. But now that I do, I realize that there isn’t a single object I truly couldn’t live without.

When we think about the things we use every day our phones, watches, notebooks, or even sentimental items we often believe they are essential. But in reality, most objects are just habits and conveniences rather than true necessities. We adapt, we replace, and we move on.

Of course, some things make life easier, more comfortable, or more enjoyable. But if I were forced to let go of them, I would still find a way to manage. This makes me wonder: how much of what we consider essential is really just a habit we’ve become attached to?

Lajos

What Experiences in Life Helped Me Grow the Most?

What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

Life has a way of shaping us, often in ways we least expect. Every experience whether positive or negative plays a role in our personal growth. Over the years, I’ve come to realize that some of my greatest lessons didn’t come from success or comfort, but rather from the challenges and setbacks I faced.

Difficult situations force us to adapt, rethink our choices, and push beyond our limits. When everything is going smoothly, there’s little incentive to change or improve. However, when life throws unexpected obstacles our way, we are compelled to develop resilience, patience, and problem-solving skills. In my case, professional challenges, personal disappointments, and even failures have been my greatest teachers. They’ve taught me to stay focused, remain disciplined, and never take anything for granted.

At the same time, positive experiences have also played a crucial role. The moments of achievement, the satisfaction of completing a difficult project, or the simple joy of shared experiences with people I value all of these reinforce my motivation and purpose. They remind me why perseverance matters.

I try to make use of everything life presents, whether it’s a success to celebrate or a hardship to endure. In the end, growth is about perspective seeing every experience as an opportunity to learn, evolve, and move forward stronger than before.

Lajos

Do You Believe in Fate/Destiny?

Do you believe in fate/destiny?

Yes, I do. I firmly believe that our fate is already written, each step of our journey predetermined. However, the most fascinating part is that we don’t know in advance what awaits us. Life unfolds moment by moment, keeping us in suspense, allowing us to experience the unknown as it comes.

Of course, we can make decisions that seem to shape our path, but even those choices are part of the grand design. Every decision we make, every turn we take, is already destined to happen. It’s a paradox—an illusion of control within a framework that has already been set.

Yet, this mystery is what makes life beautiful. If we knew everything in advance, where would be the excitement, the lessons, the growth? The journey itself is what truly matters, and whether we call it fate, destiny, or something else, we are all walking a path that was meant for us.

Lajos

A Bittersweet Farewell to the Savanna

Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

For four unforgettable years, I had the privilege of working in Senegal a period that not only shaped my career but also transformed my soul. The savanna, with its endless horizons and raw, untamed beauty, provided a sanctuary where I experienced a profound sense of freedom. Every day brought the thrill of discovery, as I immersed myself in the vibrant culture and breathtaking landscapes of this remarkable land.

Living amid the vast expanses of the savanna, I learned to appreciate the simple yet profound joys of life. The rustling grasses, the expansive skies, and the unspoken connection with nature offered a liberating escape from the everyday routine. It was a time of personal growth and self-discovery, where every moment felt imbued with possibility.

However, as all remarkable chapters must come to an end, saying goodbye to this cherished phase was one of the most challenging decisions I ever faced. Leaving behind the beauty of Senegal and the freedom I found there was heart-wrenching, a farewell that resonated deeply with me.

Yet, life moved forward with a gentle insistence. In the wake of that poignant goodbye, new experiences unfolded—each one echoing the spirit of freedom I had come to know. These fresh opportunities reminded me that every ending lays the groundwork for a new beginning, each as enriching and transformative as the last.

This phase in my life taught me the invaluable lesson of embracing change and cherishing the memories that propel us forward. Though I will always hold Senegal close to my heart, I now understand that letting go is an essential part of growth.

Lajos